I
want you to imagine with me a beautiful picket fence. There’s one in my
neighborhood that I particularly have in mind. It has those wide slats that run
along the rails. The tops of the slats vary in such a way that there is an
artful sweep between the posts. At the top of each post is a beautiful, simple
finial. Let’s image that that fence runs along the boundary of our property.
Yes—our property.
You
know what they say, don’t you? “Good fences
make good neighbors.” Inside this lovely fence, we can feel safe and relaxed.
We can feel comfortable sitting on the porch, drinking iced tea and watching
the world go by, while a lovely breeze pushes the baskets of hanging flowers in
slow rotations. Occasionally, we have to go out and get our mail from the
mailbox near the gate. Ah, yes, good fences do make good neighbors.
What
is the function of a fence? To beautify, to keep things in, to keep things out,
to protect. There are all kinds of fences—pretty white ones, chicken wire
fences, split rail, chain link, razor wire. I remember a particular kind of
fence from childhood. It was an invisible one. My brother is only two years
older than me and when we were young and on family vacations this line drawn
between us. It was alternatively him or me who drew it right down the middle of
the back seat. It was drawn with precision and much animosity. You know what we
said to each other, right? “Don’t you dare cross this line.” That was a type of
fence.
There
appears to be a Biblical law about this matter. In Deuteronomy 22:8 the Old
Testament law says, “When you build a new
house, make a parapet around your roof…”
What? A fence, a barrier, on the roof? That seems odd, doesn’t it?
This
portion of the law we just read from Deuteronomy was just that—a portion. Here’s the whole law. “When you build a new house, make a parapet around your roof so that you
may not bring the guilt of bloodshed on your house if someone falls from the
roof.” To understand the cultural
context of this law we’re going to have to dig a little deeper. During the time
of this law, most homes had flat roofs. The roofs were far more than a covering
for their heads or protection against storms. These roofs, as you can also see
in many places in the world today, were used for a variety of things. They were
used to dry herbs, to thresh grain, to air laundry, to host larger parties and
sometimes were even sleeping areas for guests. So, when the Old Testament Law
includes the need for a fence on the roof of a house, it is a law based on care
and concern for others—for the neighbor. If a guest was sleeping on top of that
roof, and woke in the middle of the night, got up and stumbled off of the roof
without a fence, what would become of that person? If the roof were high enough
that person could die or if were just a single story, that person might break
their legs. So, this law was in place to protect fearless children, unfamiliar
guests and residents of the house who just might stumble. A pretty good law,
right?
Again,
why are we talking about roof fences? We have a good enough fence right here in
front of our place. What would our neighbors think—since we are good, biblical
Christians—if we suddenly hired a fence builder to move our lovely picket fence
up around the roof of our lovely home because the Bible told us to?
Here
is where we have to dig deeper still. The Law of God was first given to Moses
and a scraggly group of ex-slaves. They had lived under another and brutal law
for over 400 years—that law was the whip of the slave driver. Suddenly, by the
hand of God, they were freed! Freedom without guidance results in chaos,
anarchy and violence. Therefore, one of the most loving things God did when he
freed the Hebrew slaves was the establishment of his Law entirely based on his
love for his people.
Tremper
Longman III wrote a great little book called Making Sense of the Old Testament: Three Crucial Questions. In the
chapter “How is the Christian to Apply the Old Testament to Life?” Longman
describes the structure and function of Old Testament Law. There are three
types of Law in the Old Testament:
Ceremonial: How to worship as God’s people
Civil: How to
be God’s Nation
Moral: How
to behave with each other
These
laws can be considered either general or ethical laws and are firmly rooted in
the oldest set of laws for God’s followers, the Ten Commandments (Exodus
20:1-17.) The first half of the Ten
Commandments is about love toward God, while the second half is all about love
for our neighbors. The rest of the Law in the Bible, that followed this revelation
to Moses and his people, comes directly from just these ten. In fact, there is
a wonderful ancient command that sums the Law up beautifully. Deuteronomy 6:4-5
“Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the
Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul
and with all your strength. Love is the foundation of the Law!
There
is a fourth type of law in the Old Testament. These are called case laws. They
are laws which are derived from all the preceding Law of God. In other words,
when a situation arose wherein it was not clear how the Law of God was to be
interpreted, God spoke through Moses to describe how the underlying principle
of Law would apply in that case. Longman states that these are not laws in
addition to the Ten Commandments, rather they are applications of the Ten
Commandments to the specific situations of the Old Testament people of God. This is precisely the kind of law we just
read in Deuteronomy 22:8—a case law derived from the foundational Law of God.
Longman
summarizes the role of the Law in this way. “The role of the law remains the
same today as in the past: it is our gracious God’s guideline for living that
pleases him and is good for us.” It is God’s good fence.
So,
let’s take that fence down off of the roof and talk about how that case law
might be interpreted today in our modern location. There are many local and
state laws that require builders to build in certain and safe ways. These laws
were made not just to delay building projects or to avoid litigation, but to do
what? To protect people. Whether or not you have ever looked at building codes
this way, those are codes of love—a rudimentary respect for the life that God
has given to every person who enters that house.
There
are many other laws. The speed limit is not there just to keep us from going
fast, but to protect the lives of other drivers and pedestrians. How about city
codes that say we have to keep our sidewalks free of snow and ice? It’s not just a rule that makes us get out of
our warm house to do something we really would rather not do. Does that not
provide safe passage for anyone on our property, helping them to avoid falls, concussions
and medical bills?
Centuries
after the Law of God was handed down through Moses, a group of religious folks
called the Pharisees, challenged our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Now these
folks, along with other religious leaders called the Sadducees, had taken hold
of God’s law and made it burdensome by adding hundreds of other petty rules
that they thought were important to keep the faith with God. But these rules,
let’s call them that rather than laws because they were man-made, were so
restrictive that they choked out love. These religious folk followed Jesus and
his disciples around demanding that they follow rules such as never threshing
grain on the Sabbath. But their definition of work was extreme. Some of the
disciples were hungry one Sabbath day and simply gathered some grain into the
palms of their hands as they walked along. They rubbed the grains together to
remove the husks and popped them into their mouths to eat the good protein. The
rule-makers condemned them for meeting a basic physical need on the Sabbath.
The religious leaders were so consumed with following the Law of God and their
own rules that they denied, crushed and obliterated love.
In
Matthew 9:9-13 we come across another scene where they attempted to abolish
love for what they thought was God’s Law.
As Jesus went on
from there, he saw a man named Matthew sitting at the tax collector’s booth.
“Follow me,” he told him, and Matthew got up and followed him.
While Jesus was
having dinner at Matthew’s house, many tax collectors and sinners came and ate
with him and his disciples. When the Pharisees saw this, they asked his
disciples, “Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners?”
On hearing this,
Jesus said, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. But go and
learn what this means: ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice.’ For I have not come to
call the righteous, but sinners.”
Here
Jesus tried to move those religious leaders back to the true meaning of the Law
of God—mercy. Mercy speaks to those who others will not. Mercy sits down to
table with them and listens to their stories. Mercy feeds, clothes, heals and
cares for those within its reach—our neighbors.
In
Peter’s great sermon after Pentecost he confronted his listeners with this
truth. Acts 10:37-38. “You know what has
happened throughout the province of Judea, beginning in Galilee after the
baptism that John preached—how God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy
Spirit and power, and how he went around doing good and healing all who were
under the power of the devil, because God was with him.”
Do
you know that if it were not for the love and mercy of Jesus Christ, our
beloved Gospel writer Matthew may never have come to know true freedom and
salvation? And then he would not ever have written one of our Gospels that we
pour over today? Jesus Christ, who is the one and same God of the Old
Testament, lovingly called out to Matthew a Roman tax-collecting, reviled
neighbor.
Take
a look at Matthew 22:34-40. “…the
Pharisees got together. One of them, an expert in the law, tested him with this
question: “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?” Jesus
replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul
and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the
second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the
Prophets hang on these two commandments.”
Can
we go back to the Old Testament Law for a minute? Go to Leviticus 19:9-18 and read
these words about how love works itself out toward the neighbor.
“‘When
you reap the harvest of your land, do not reap to the very edges of your field
or gather the gleanings of your harvest. Do not go over your vineyard a second time or pick
up the grapes that have fallen. Leave them for the poor and the foreigner. I am
the Lord your God.
“‘Do
not steal.
“‘Do
not lie.
“‘Do
not deceive one another.
“‘Do
not swear falsely by my name and so profane the name of your God. I am the Lord.
“‘Do
not defraud or rob your neighbor.
“‘Do
not hold back the wages of a hired worker overnight.
“‘Do
not curse the deaf or put a stumbling block in front of the blind, but fear
your God. I am the Lord.
“‘Do
not pervert justice; do not show partiality to the poor or favoritism to the
great, but judge your neighbor fairly.
“‘Do
not go about spreading slander among your people.
“‘Do
not do anything that endangers your neighbor’s life. I am the Lord.
“‘Do
not hate a fellow Israelite in your heart. Rebuke your neighbor frankly so you
will not share in their guilt.
“‘Do
not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your people, but love
your neighbor as yourself. I am the Lord.
The
Law of God is shot through with love for our neighbors! Everything we do has consequences
for our neighbors. Everything we say has consequences for our neighbors. And if
those things are done without love . . . may God help us!
The
Apostle Paul wrote in Philippians 2:1-5
Therefore if you
have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his
love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and
compassion, then make my joy complete by
being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one
mind. Do nothing out of selfish ambition
or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking
to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. In your
relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus…
Do
know what love does? It inverts our fences. It pushes our self-protectiveness,
our isolationism, our self-satisfaction and self-righteousness, our love-less
defenses to the back instead of the front. It reaches out in love to our
neighbors because God in Christ Jesus first reached out to us! It doesn’t care
what the Pharisees say or think, it sits down with the addicted and
demonstrates compassion toward them. It doesn’t think about how lonely it might
be; it reaches out to the lonely. Like the good Samaritan, it doesn’t put its
nose in the air and walk by the suffering. It stops and provides safety and
security for the battered and bruised.
I’ve
got something new to declare to you today—Good neighbors make good fences.
Good,
godly, loving neighbors look out for those around them. We put up fences
against wickedness, evil, injustice and hate and open wide our arms to those
around us. We are thoughtful about preventing injury to the children in our
streets. We vote against destructive legislation. We speak kindly to the
abrasive co-worker. We reach out to the wayward and plead with them to come on
back to the house that has fence of active love all around the roof.
The
Apostle Paul had experienced this kind of love when on that Damascus road his
Savior confronted him with a full, direct, light-filled intervention of love.
After his profound conversion, the teaching of loving Christians and the
infilling of the Holy Spirit, he went around doing good as well. He established
churches, evangelized the Gentiles, mentored young pastors, rebuked wayward
believers and guided congregations into what real love meant.
Before
we get much further we must come to terms with what godly, neighborly love is
not. John R.W. Stott, was an English Christian leader and Anglican cleric who
was noted as a leader of the worldwide Evangelical movement. (1921-2011) He
wrote a little booklet that was published by Intervarsity Press entitled Who is My Neighbor? The Challenge of
Christ’s Compassion. In this booklet Stott comes face-to-face with what it
really means to be a loving neighbor. (Emphasis added.)
The only limit we have the liberty to
place on our giving and serving is a limit placed by love itself. Probably all
of us go through a stage of what might be called “indiscriminate charity.” We
take certain phrases from the Sermon on the Mount with unimaginative
literalism, especially “give to him who begs from you.” So we give to every
beggar and respond to every appeal. And certainly an indiscriminate charity is
far better than no charity at all. But then we come to see that true love is
discerning. It looks beyond the appeal to the real need. It recognizes that
it is not always in the best interests of the beggar to yield to his every
demand, for he may be a gambler, a spendthrift or drunkard. Then love limits
giving, not in order to dodge the challenge but in order to meet it more
responsibly.
John
Stott reflects the actions of Jesus toward the combative religious neighbors of
his day. Jesus did not give in to the Pharisees’ tricks or try to placate them.
He did not overreact to their loud noises and bristling threats. He rebuked
them, calling even some “a brood of vipers”. But he did this out of love for
their dying, love-constricted souls. He wanted them to know the love of God in
its true state, not bound to religious rituals or petty practices, but pouring
out through them to their lost and suffering neighbors.
We
must read 1 Corinthians 13 in relation to our neighbors.
If I
speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a
resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and
can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move
mountains, but do not have love I, I am nothing. If I give all
I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but
do not have love, I gain nothing.
It is here that we see how love throws
down the gate and moves the fence built to keep others out. It moves it behind
us to provide for protection for those within our reach. Read how the fence
moves because of love.
Love is patient,
love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It
does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it
keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the
truth. It always protects, always trust., always hopes, always perseveres. Love
never fails.
Paul knew that all the fences we put up in
self-righteousness, in fear, in sorrow, in self-centeredness, in stunted
spiritual growth, will eventually fall down.
But where there are
prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled;
where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child,
I reasoned like a child. When I became a man [woman/mature
Christian], I put the ways of childhood
behind me.
If Paul could use his God-given will and the power of the
Holy Spirit to move and replace his Pharisaical, violent, destructive fence, so
can we!
Paul also gave us some grace. For we all know that we
cannot be completely loving all of the time. Sometimes we’re going to mess up
this loving-our-neighbor stuff. And when we do, we ask for forgiveness from God
and our neighbor and push that fence back into its right place, believing by
faith that someday, when we are sitting at the feet of Jesus, our love will
finally and truly be like his.
For now we see only
a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part;
then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three
remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
What
if love for our neighbor did not have to be a law? What if it just flowed out
of us naturally? Paul wrote that it can. If the love of God, through Jesus
Christ and by the power of the Holy Spirit, fills our hearts, guess who it pours
out on? Our grumpy, mean, destitute,
filthy, lonely, combative, pharisaical, not-like-us neighbors.
Today we have the opportunity to take action with the help of the Holy
Spirit. The Holy Spirit may be talking with you about some things right now.
-Is there someone or some people group, some neighbor, that has been brought
to your mind?
-If you don’t have love for them, maybe we need to start with two of the
most fundamental prayers.
Our Father, in heaven, forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who
trespass against us.
Ask God to forgive you of your prejudices, your bias, your blindness—for not
loving your neighbor as yourself.
Oh, God, give me more love and love for my neighbors!
Then we open our hands to receive the limitless love of God for others.
What if we did not feel compelled to draw a line between ourselves and our
neighbors? What if we cut down our razor wire fences and put up loving fences
behind us? What if we embraced with true love those within our reach and put up
protective fences to keep them from harm? What if we had a big pitcher of iced
tea and invited neighbors to come to table with us on the front porch—no matter
what the Pharisees said?
Will you imagine, visualize, what it would be like if you invited those
neighbors to join you at the table of Jesus Christ? He invited you there. Good neighbors make
good fences, my friends, just as Jesus did.
Amen
Copyright 2021 M.R. Hyde